{"id":772383,"date":"2019-02-07T18:11:38","date_gmt":"2019-02-08T00:11:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.bumpboxes.com\/?p=772383"},"modified":"2020-10-12T19:21:56","modified_gmt":"2020-10-13T00:21:56","slug":"ways-to-cope-with-the-challenges-of-ivf","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bumpboxes.com\/blog\/ways-to-cope-with-the-challenges-of-ivf\/","title":{"rendered":"Ways to Cope With the Challenges of IVF"},"content":{"rendered":"

To say that in vitro fertilization (IVF) is an emotional rollercoaster, is a bit of an understatement. You\u2019ll be full of hormones, nerves are shot and there\u2019s an abundance of waiting and trying to not put the rest of your life on hold when you\u2019re desperate to move <\/span>this<\/span><\/i> part of your life forward. It\u2019s grueling. It\u2019s gut-wrenching. It\u2019s all-consuming. It takes an incredible toll on people \u2013 physically, mentally, emotionally \u2013 and you can never truly be prepared for what\u2019s to come. And that\u2019s just the nature of the IVF process. But there are ways to survive the ups and downs of IVF. These are the things that, when it\u2019s all said and done, you\u2019ll look back and wish you would have done to survive it. Here are several ways to cope with the challenges that come with IVF. <\/span><\/p>\n

Choose your IVF team carefully<\/b><\/p>\n

There are major financial risks associated with IVF, and the time to think about them is before you\u2019ve begun the process so that you can make a decision with a clear mind, rather than one that has just experienced massive disappointment. Look for profiles similar to your own and research the success rates of the clinic. When you visit with the team do you feel comfortable asking them questions? Do the team members make sure that you\u2019ve adequately understood their answers? Learn as much as you can about the process so that you know what to expect at every stage. <\/span><\/p>\n

Talk to people who have been there<\/b><\/p>\n

The medical team can help you navigate the practical aspects of the process, but someone who has been through it can help you with the emotional side of IVF. If you can find someone who has been through it and is willing to answer your questions, you\u2019ll feel a sense of relief at finding someone who \u201cgets it.\u201d If you can\u2019t find an individual to speak with, there are also support groups you could join full of couples in the same boat as you are. <\/span><\/p>\n

Find a mental health professional who specializes in fertility issues<\/b><\/p>\n

Having a team of support is invaluable to wading through IVF, but you may consider adding to your team a professional therapist or counselor who specializes in fertility issues<\/a> and mental health. It\u2019s even better if that professional has been through IVF herself. Remember, it\u2019s her sole purpose as your therapist to help you work through the mental challenges that come with your IVF journey. <\/span><\/p>\n

Discover stress management techniques<\/b><\/p>\n

Look for ways to reduce and release stress while building resilience as you go through IVF. Yoga, meditation, mind-body breathing techniques and healing massage are all excellent ways to maintain a positive outlook on the whole process. It also goes without saying that rest and taking care of your body are critical components of surviving the IVF journey. Give yourself permission to say yes to the things that build you up, create positive energy states and are rewarding. And don\u2019t feel guilty about cutting out the things that do the opposite. Take a nap, a walk, a break or a short vacation. Taking care of yourself is one of the best things you can do to build patience and grace during an otherwise challenging time. <\/span><\/p>\n

Have things to look forward to<\/b><\/p>\n

The IVF journey is often a long one, with months of doctor\u2019s appointments, medical procedures and shots. Consider adding fun trips to your calendar that give you and your partner something to look forward to. It doubles as much-needed time away, and could be a good respite if the treatment fails. Having something to look forward to, like a fun trip, a new pair of shoes or a fancy dinner during each stage of the process can keep your spirits up and your mind off the stresses that come with treatment. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Keep a close circle of trusted support members<\/b><\/p>\n

Be wary of who you talk to during the process, as having the wrong kind of energy or too many people checking on you can add unnecessary stress. You may unknowingly subject yourself to insensitive comments or constant questions if you don\u2019t set the right kind of boundaries from the beginning. Be open and honest with your trusted circle about how much and when you\u2019ll share details. And then ask them for what you need in return throughout the journey. Having ground rules means that YOU get the help that you need. <\/span><\/p>\n

Take it one day at a time<\/b><\/p>\n

The nature of IVF is that it\u2019s a waiting game. There are many ways to cope with the challenges of IVF. You\u2019ll have good days and bad days. There are ups and downs. You\u2019ll desperately want to control the outcome and pray that it works. It\u2019s so easy to be consumed with questions and the anxiety about whether you\u2019re doing everything possible to get a positive result. The best (and only) thing you can do is take it one day at a time and focus on bringing the best energy you can to the whole journey. That\u2019s all you can do. We\u2019re rooting for you, mama.<\/span><\/p>\n

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To say that in vitro fertilization (IVF) is an emotional rollercoaster, is a bit of an understatement. You\u2019ll be full of hormones, nerves are shot and there\u2019s an abundance of waiting and trying to not put the rest of your life on hold when you\u2019re desperate to move this part of your life forward. 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